God has given three core desires to women. He put these desires in a women's heart; they are her destiny. These core desires reflect what women are made for. As women allow Jesus to do His healing work to restore their hearts, he wants to reawaken these desires within.
Women have been created with a desire to be romanced. Ultimately, this desire is fulfilled when women allow themselves to be loved by God. And, God is the Great Lover. Jeremiah 31:3 reads, "The Lord has appeared to us in the past, saying: 'I have loved you with an everlasting love…" When a woman knows that she is loved passionately by God, she understands that she is safe in His love. She can risk offering her true heart, being vulnerable and tender, and invite others into deeper intimacy with and healing from Jesus.
Women don't want to be merely useful. They want to be irreplaceable in something epic and grand, something heroic. That's what women were made for.
Women are led to believe that beauty is a matter of external qualities alone and that the externals are of the utmost importance. Women also have a hard time believing that they possess any great beauty of their own. The truth is, that as image bearers of God, every woman possesses beauty. That beauty first, is a quality of soul. It is beauty that emerges and grows over time as a woman walks with God. Beauty makes itself known in the external as well. It expresses itself in the face, in the eyes, in the voice. Women want to make the world a more beautiful place through their lives. They inspire their husbands to become all that God created them to be.